Selecting An Appropriate Graves Stone

By Tom Tree


Many people find it quite difficult to accept the passing of a loved one. They feel such a sense of loss that coping with their grief can be very trying. Most find that installing a Grave Memorial that represents the personality of the deceased not only pays homage to their memory but provides a physical link for those left behind.

For these reasons, taking time to consider one's options in site markers is important. The monument should be a reflection of the person it is meant to represent in order to properly honor their memory. Between the various materials and design elements available, there are plenty of opportunities to design the perfect piece.
Cemetery Grave Markers


Many types of materials can be used to create these monuments. This includes wood, concrete, limestone and marble as well as stainless steel and brass. While each of those substances have desirable qualities, granite and bronze stand above them all as the most commonly used mainly because these two are attractive and versatile, yet also durable enough to stand up to some of the worst climate conditions.

A growing trend in newer cemeteries is to place restrictions on the marker designs that are permitted at the facility. Many do this as a matter of uniformity, while others find that it makes routine maintenance much simpler. No matter the reasons, once one has decided on where they would like to be buried, it is most important to ascertain if there are regulations and if so, consider them when designing the gravestone.

When one chooses a material such as granite, they have many options in color, texture and detail. This stone is so versatile that it comes not only in the standard grey, but in white, pink, red, blue, green and black. The surface can be left in its basic matte finish or polished to a high gloss shine that resembles a mirror and is perfect for etching.

Details may be added to make the design more personal. This may mean having a favorite passage, verse or symbol etched into the surface. Many people find that the Victorian practice of incorporating a weather proofed photo frame into the monument is a truly inspired way to make the tribute special since it immortalizes the individuals likeness for generations to come.

If one has served in the military or belonged to any special organizations, there may be a decal representing that connection that may be added to the monument. Special additions like statues, flower vases, ornamental urns and convenient seating are still more ways to create a unique grave memorial. Some providers can even incorporate solar lighting into the product so that it is always illuminated.




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